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ADOPTION IN WESTERN NORTH CAROLINA

Unfortunately, for some families, bringing a new baby into a childless or expanding family requires the assistance of an adoption attorney. Adoption establishes a legal parent-child relationship between adults and children who aren’t necessarily related by blood. At the same time, adoption permanently severs the relationship between the child and his biological parents and their families, relieving them of their legal rights and obligations toward the child.   There are different types of adoptions, each with different requirements. The family law attorneys at GHMA | LAW provide a wide variety of adoption related legal representation.

Step-Parent Adoptions

It is common for step-parents to adopt children that they have already assumed responsibilities for to make one family unit. Generally, step-parent adoptions are less restrictive than non-relative adoptions. While a pre-placement or home study is not required,  there are requirements about the length of time a step-parent must be married and resided with the child. The most common issue that arises in these adoptions is if  the biological parent does not consent. When this occurs an action for the court to terminate rights must be done prior to the adoption. Since a step-parent adoption doesn’t sever the biological parent’s relationship to the child like other adoptions, there are other issues to be addressed such as the biological parent’s support obligations and rights after the adoption that a knowledgeable attorney can answer and guide you though. 

Blood Relative Adoptions including Grandparents

Many times, grandparents and other extended family need ways to create a more cohesive family unit for the best interest of the child. Adoption of a child related by blood is one way that families do this. While the adoption process for relatives is not as complex as other adoptions, nor does it require a pre-placement or home study,  there are numerous documents that must be completed and submitted to the court. It also may become necessary to have a court terminate the rights of the biological parents if they refuse to consent. 

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DO I NEED AN ATTORNEY?

The family law attorneys at GHMA | LAW work with both adopting parents and biological parents. If you are considering adoption it is imperative that you seek the assistance of an experienced attorney. The adoption process can be challenging. Failure to follow the many requirements involved can mean delays or even denials. A knowledgeable attorney can advise you of your options and help you determine what is most beneficial to you and your family during this time.  

Patrick McCroskey and Janet Amburgey are both board-certified specialists in family law and have extensive experience in adoptions.  They are dedicated to helping clients understand the adoption process and avoid unnecessary complications. If you are planning to adopt a child in North Carolina call GHMA | LAW for compassionate and effective counsel. 

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ADOPTION IN WESTERN NORTH CAROLINA

Unfortunately, for some families, bringing a new baby into a childless or expanding family requires the assistance of an adoption attorney. Adoption establishes a legal parent-child relationship between adults and children who aren’t necessarily related by blood. At the same time, adoption permanently severs the relationship between the child and his biological parents and their families, relieving them of their legal rights and obligations toward the child.   There are different types of adoptions, each with different requirements. The family law attorneys at GHMA | LAW provide a wide variety of adoption related legal representation.

Step-Parent Adoptions

It is common for step-parents to adopt children that they have already assumed responsibilities for to make one family unit. Generally, step-parent adoptions are less restrictive than non-relative adoptions. While a pre-placement or home study is not required,  there are requirements about the length of time a step-parent must be married and resided with the child. The most common issue that arises in these adoptions is if  the biological parent does not consent. When this occurs an action for the court to terminate rights must be done prior to the adoption. Since a step-parent adoption doesn’t sever the biological parent’s relationship to the child like other adoptions, there are other issues to be addressed such as the biological parent’s support obligations and rights after the adoption that a knowledgeable attorney can answer and guide you though. 

Blood Relative Adoptions including Grandparents

Many times, grandparents and other extended family need ways to create a more cohesive family unit for the best interest of the child. Adoption of a child related by blood is one way that families do this. While the adoption process for relatives is not as complex as other adoptions, nor does it require a pre-placement or home study,  there are numerous documents that must be completed and submitted to the court. It also may become necessary to have a court terminate the rights of the biological parents if they refuse to consent. 

Check our posts below for further information about Adoption. >>>

DO I NEED AN ATTORNEY?

The family law attorneys at GHMA | LAW work with both adopting parents and biological parents. If you are considering adoption it is imperative that you seek the assistance of an experienced attorney. The adoption process can be challenging. Failure to follow the many requirements involved can mean delays or even denials. A knowledgeable attorney can advise you of your options and help you determine what is most beneficial to you and your family during this time.  

Patrick McCroskey and Janet Amburgey are both board-certified specialists in family law and have extensive experience in adoptions.  They are dedicated to helping clients understand the adoption process and avoid unnecessary complications. If you are planning to adopt a child in North Carolina call GHMA | LAW for compassionate and effective counsel. 

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We will do everything possible to structure your case so that you may obtain the best legal result. Punishing your spouse or winning an all-out, no holds-barred victory, however, is an unrealistic and unattainable goal. Your attorney's job is to represent your best interests, and to achieve the best resolution for you. His job is not to serve as your avenger. He cannot give you retribution for the sins of your spouse. If you enter this process expecting revenge and retribution, you will be sorely disappointed and unhappy with your attorney, yourself, and the outcome of your case, no matter how favorable that outcome may be to you. Before beginning the attorney-client relationship, you should make every effort to put your priorities in order, and realize that there are some things the legal system cannot provide.

Most people share the same fears, questions, and beliefs about divorce. The following are some of the most common of these fears, questions and beliefs.

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Emotions

In a domestic dispute, negative emotions such as hostility, anger, and revenge can needlessly delay a resolution and increase the cost. Perspective and objectivity, on the other hand, can promote a conclusion and reduce the cost.

Many factors may be involved in the breakup of your marriage, and you may feel indignation, anger and resentment toward your spouse. You may want to punish your spouse by making the process difficult and time-consuming. This type of thinking usually results in a no-win situation for everyone concerned.

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Reconciliation

Often, a potential client visits an attorney to discuss divorce, although they have not yet made the decision to take the big step. First, they want to know their options. Attorneys typically encourage them to explore alternatives, and often suggest how to protect themselves and meet their needs, short of divorce.

If your attorney raises the issue of reconciliation, he is not questioning or judging your decision. But, it is clarifying and confirming that you know your options, and that you want a divorce.

Your Spouse's Suggestions

The mediator’s role is to move the parties beyond personality clashes and historic grievances. Only then, can the mediator help you improve communication so any future dealings can take place without repeating the difficulties of the past. Mediation is a useful tool because it adds a new dimension to the negotiations. Because the mediator’s purpose is to help guide you to find solutions that you can both agree to, he/she does not have the power to decide your case, or in any other way, act as a judge nor does he/she have a fixed result in mind to urge you toward.

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Your Will

As you begin the divorce process, the first order of business is to review your will. If you do not have one, get one immediately. Succession laws may conflict with your wishes.

You may choose to consult David Hillier, of this law firm, regarding your will, as well as any financial concerns and considerations you may have.

Length of Time

Generally speaking, it is impossible to predict exactly how long the case will take. After the case is under way, and your attorney understands the issues, he will be better able to gauge the duration. How long it will take depends on the following factors:

  • The number and complexity of contested issues;
  • The attitudes of each of the parties, their attorneys, and their inclination to settle;

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What is Mediation?

Mediation is a process in which two or more people involved in a dispute come together voluntarily to try to develop a solution to their problem with the help of a neutral third person (or persons), called the mediator. Unlike a judge or an arbitrator, the mediator does not take sides or make decisions. The mediator, usually trained in conflict resolution, is there to help the disputants evaluate their goals and options in order to formulate their own solution. To achieve the fairest results possible, you both take an active part in your divorce and turn what could be a battle for control into a search for mutually beneficial solutions.

Does Mediation Work?

Mediation can take place over a series of sessions. But, more often than not, it is scheduled for a continuous amount of time to keep the negotiations going. Sessions are generally held in the privacy of the mediator’s office or an attorney’s office, and begin with all involved signing an agreement that the negotiations will be kept confidential. At the end of a successful mediation, the mediator will prepare a Memorandum or writing expressing the agreements of the parties, at least on the issues which were resolved. Any formal agreement will be drafted by your or your spouse’s lawyer.

What to Expect from Your Mediator

The mediator’s role is to move the parties beyond personality clashes and historic grievances. Only then, can the mediator help you improve communication so any future dealings can take place without repeating the difficulties of the past. Mediation is a useful tool because it adds a new dimension to the negotiations. Because the mediator’s purpose is to help guide you to find solutions that you can both agree to, he/she does not have the power to decide your case, or in any other way, act as a judge nor does he/she have a fixed result in mind to urge you toward.

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What are the Benefits of Mediation?

Mediators can increase the likelihood of a negotiated settlement by bringing the skills, creativity, and influence of trained, impartial third parties to bear on the problem. Perhaps more importantly, frequently mediation can save time and money.

Mediation keeps your options open and reduces issues of conflict. Although most who undertake mediation have a successful conclusion, some do not. If mediation doesn’t work, you can still sue and go to court or engage in arbitration.

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Counseling

Domestic disputes are emotionally charged. Clients are encouraged to seek counseling before and during the process. Counseling can help clients to work through their pain, accept the marriage’s end, learn coping skills, and pick up the pieces of their lives and go forward.

Don’t wait for your spouse to agree to participate. Individual counseling can help. Often, children and parents attend counseling together to alleviate the effects of a divorce or custody dispute on the children, and to help the family heal emotionally.

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Practical Matters

Litigation often spawns more litigation. To determine whether certain issues are worth litigating, you must weigh the price you will pay with your time, emotions, and money, against the anticipated outcome and its benefit to you. Again, your attorney will advise you on these matters.

Dating prior to the final divorce: Don’t, unless your attorney has specifically advised you that it is okay.

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Attorney Camaraderie

Attorneys who specialize in Divorce and Family Law will probably try many cases against each other over the years. They will attend the same professional events and, may even work on committees together. Camaraderie develops naturally over the years. Just because your attorney and your spouse’s attorney exchange pleasantries, share a joke, or have lunch together, does not mean that they are being disloyal to their clients. Your attorney is professionally committed to the best result for you given the facts of your case and the law. Being rude, hostile, or mean to opposing counsel does nothing to further your case and generally harms your case rather than helping.

Is Your Attorney Tough Enough?

All too often, the client has the attitude that a lawyer who is a “fighter” is a lawyer who refuses to cooperate with opposing counsel, makes demands and gets instant results, goes to court at the drop of a hat, and plays Perry Mason in court. This notion is sadly misguided.

The time to fight may be during tough negotiations or in court. But, not cooperating on routine matters accomplishes only greatly increased attorney fees because it requires both attorneys to do everything the hard way. Cooperation by the attorneys, as well as the parties, particularly during the discovery phase, is always in the best interest of the client.

Social Media

Social Media is a new facet of communication today. We understand that everyone participates in social media to some degree. When you are involved in divorce proceedings or any type of litigation for that matter, a good general practice is to avoid discussing any element of your case, or your spouse, in any social media forum. All social media is discoverable, and it never goes away. If you are considering divorce or litigation, be very careful what you say in online forums, including email attached to social media sites like Facebook, LinkedIn, and MySpace.

Costs

Just as it is impossible to predict exactly how long your case will take, it is difficult to realistically estimate the total cost of your litigation, even when your attorney knows the issues that will be contested and the strength of the parties’ feelings. If you and/or your spouse have completely lost trust in one another, want complete discovery on all issues, and desire to argue many issues to the bitter end, the process will be long, drawn-out and expensive.   read more >>>